Friday, November 8, 2013

"How To Do What You Love," by Paul Graham

Today on Gina Draws: more inspirational things on the internet!

If you're feeling directionless in life, or down about your skills, or you're just plain exhausted from the struggle, please take ten minutes and read this article (it looks longer than it is). "How To Do What You Love" by Paul Graham

It is the kind of article that constantly had me saying "YES!!" Below are a few gems.

"If you take a boring job to give your family a high standard of living, as so many people do, you risk infecting your kids with the idea that work is boring. Maybe it would be better for kids in this one case if parents were not so unselfish."

"The rule about doing what you love assumes a certain length of time. It doesn't mean, do what will make you happiest this second, but what will make you happiest over some longer period, like a week or a month. Unproductive pleasures pall eventually. After a while you get tired of lying on the beach. If you want to stay happy, you have to do something."

"Just do what you like, and let prestige take care of itself."

"'Always produce" is also a heuristic for finding the work you love. If you subject yourself to that constraint, it will automatically push you away from things you think you're supposed to work on, toward things you actually like. "Always produce" will discover your life's work the way water, with the aid of gravity, finds the hole in your roof."

"Figuring out what you like to work on doesn't mean you get to work on it. That's a separate question. And if you're ambitious you have to keep them separate: you have to make a conscious effort to keep your ideas about what you want from being contaminated by what seems possible. It's painful to keep them apart, because it's painful to observe the gap between them. So most people pre-emptively lower their expectations."

"Constraints give your life shape. Remove them and most people have no idea what to do: look at what happens to those who win lotteries or inherit money. Much as everyone thinks they want financial security, the happiest people are not those who have it, but those who like what they do."

"Whichever route you take, expect a struggle... But if you have the destination in sight you'll be more likely to arrive at it."

© Gina Florio 2013

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